growing stronger

I know, you guys – all of you - dont have any problems at all.

It’s all so very easy: baking cookies and stroking your lovely childrens’ heads.

Well, IF you do know somebody who’s having a hard time right now – e.g. the mother in law of the neighbour of the cousin of third grade of the fathers’ side – then you just show this person this text, okay?

No commitment, of course.

Because today I’d like to encourage those of you, who are being confronted with challenges in their lives right now.

My hearts’ desire it to make you feel as good as possible in these (hard) times!

And that, when they’re over, you’re much stronger than ever been before!

So that’s why THIS will be important for you…



1. Don’t ever believe in circumstances.

It’s easy: 

Don’t ever believe that your life is only tough, challenging, haunted by bad luck and, in general, without any chance of success.

DO NOT BELIEVE THAT!

It’s a pattern, soooooo often used and just soooo boring:

You’re dealing with „yucky“ circumstances, then your thoughts pick up the vibe and tell you, you can’t do it, you just won’t succeed, you’re just not clever enough, not pretty enough, you don’t deserve any better, the whole thing was bound to fail from the beginning on (of course!), it’s all your fault, always the same shit, you’re the problem yourself, bla bla blaaaaaa…

And here comes my contribution:

Yaaaaaaaawn.

Boring.

JUST DON’T BELIEVE IN THE CIRCUMSTANCES.

Just because a dog breaks its’ leg doesn’t mean it’s not a dog anymore, right?

Just because you’re facing challenging times…

You’ll always be my strongest, most beautiful love messenger, full of good luck, presenting love here, amazingly pretty and desirable!

You remain the person who’s the positive exception, the person that enjoys life at ease, the one who succeeds in e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g., who inspires everybody and the one who’s admired by the whole wide world.

You don’t need to travel far to find your luck because it’s inside you, yourself!

DID WE GET THAT STRAIGHT?!!

YOU ARE THE ONE AND YOU REMAIN TO BE A LOVE MESSENGER!

A dog that’s howling is still a dog, right?

Please understand- don’t let problems and bad circumstances design who you are or what your life is all about!

Don’t believe the thoughts that seem to represent the obvious.

„Hey but Joanna… what if, I really made a mistake and now I’m in trouble and it actually is my fault?“

We’re not in a „You get what you deserve“ show, baby!

(If that would bet he case, there wouldn’t have been the need of the cross.)

We’re right in the „You’re being loved and blessed, so truly and widely, impartial of your work. 

Your mistakes are ‚all inclusive’, do not worry. 

You’re just right and I’m so amazed by- you, that ONLY good things will follow, because… because I love you sooooo much!“ vibe!

THAT’S what you believe- and not the other stupid rubbish, okay?

Does that sound new to you?

Well, Welcome to my life.

„Yeah well, great Joanna. YOUR life. But my life was never like that.“

That’s what I’m saying: Welcome to the new life.
There’s just ONE life, and that’s love.

What your life was about until now is so unimportant, promise.

That’s why it’s called: NEW life.

And not: your old life „in a better version“.

I’m not writing this because it’s fun (erm… ok, maybe a little bit. I’m having so much fun doing it, really!) or because I don’t have anything better to do, but, because:

I don’t want you to struggle one second of your precious time.

I’m writing this to help you and to make you strong.

Circumstances are nothing but circumstances.

No less, no more.

And that has NOTHING to do with you, okay?

2. Remain in love.

Your feelings might shout and yell (Oh, and IF they’re going to do that!), your thoughts will be going up and down (but do not have any fun while bouncing around) but YOU REMAIN IN LOVE.

Just be assured- you’re being loved endlessly and everything will work out for you.

Believe in love and believe in its’ great power.

„Yep. I’ve been through so much, I’ll deal with that too now.“

Erm… No.

That’s not strength- that’s hardness.

But your heart should remain soft and not hardened up.

If you notice something like „I can do it, I’m tough enough, I don’t need any help“ in your thoughts and feelings, be carefull because that’s actually bitterness and not strength.

Make a decision against that!

Make that decision today and kick hardness out of your life and, then, give into my love.

This isn’t any kind of strange „soul coaching“ and I’m not pitying you because „your life is tough“ but this is- universes greatest power: I’m building you up, filling you up with joy and motivating you, „Go, baby, go!“

Speaking of motivation …

3. Feed yourself with strength and joy.

Oh YES! 

You can do that conciously.

Surround yourself with things and people that make you happy and positive and, that give you strength and joy.

(…and talking of things- I don’t mean „shoes“. Bummer ey?)

No, you feel it, when something’s good.

So just focus on that.

Conciously.

Don’t watch the circumstances, look at the good things.

Focus on strength, success, on YOU.

„But Joannaaaa … I can’t notice anything beautiful when looking at myself.“

Gosh, then just look at ME.

I’m the most beautiful and strong thing you can see right now- and attention:

You’re looking at YOURSELF while looking at me.

I’ll be your mirror. Okay?

Even if it’s quite understandable and very tempting:

Don’t listen to depressive music and don’t watch films with a sad ending, don’t read books that are full of trouble and melancholy and please- PLEEEEAAASE- don’t meet people that are depressed, negative, adust or that pity you and reassure you that „it’s always you who’s struggling“.

Oh and: Don’t read blogs of people with similar problems or sicknesses to yours!

I know- feelings LOVE self-pity parties.

They love to invite everybody and soak in the bad luck and make it stronger.

Yeah.

Well, but it was still „kinda nice and they - at least - understand me and my situation“, right?

Yes. Great.

I prefer just one person who sets me free much rather than five people who "understand" me.

„But it’s doing me good…“

No, darling.

That is so not the case.

Do you want to become stronger, or not?

Do you want to move on or do you prefer hanging around the same rubbish year for year for ye..?

It’s your decision- I’m not angry at you if you want to stay with that pile of crap.

But, to be honest: Is that really your style?

That might have been the case in the past – but as I said –

new, new, new.

4. Everytime you chose love and joy over believing in bad circumstances, you become stronger.

Be honest: Being perky when everything’s fine isn’t hard at all.

Bouncing and dancing around happily when everything’s okay- well, everybody can do that.

But to be unimpressed with the negativity around you and smiling full of joy (and maybe not even noticing that these are tough times, actually)- THAT is real strength!

Be assured: you’re like an athlete, who doesn’t always want to work out and train, and it’s tough, and he or she is sweating and sometimes the athlete just doesn’t feel like it all.

But then he or she breaks the record.

Just a little while ago, I had a „not so positive“ situation and I briefed my husband in on it.

Noelle heard me and as she was walking by, she said, very chilled,

„Oh come on mum, you’re so strong. You’re so much stronger than even a year ago. Nobody can harm you!“

BAAAAAAAAM.

That felt truly great.

So, you see: If you’re going through difficulties in your life and, if you’re focussed on love within yourself, then you really are sooooooo strong, that nothing and nobody can harm you :) .

Does that mean, difficulties are something positive?

NO, no way!

No challenge or bad circumstance is positive.

No bad situation or full on phase that you’re going through symbolises something good.

God doesn’t ever want to „show you“ something, „teach you“ something or „help“ you with problems.

That would be very twisted.

God neeeeverrrrrr shows you your way through problems, remember that!

He doesn’t use negativity to bring out positivity.

And, generally:

Your circumstances aren’t here to stay!

The situation will change- so radically, you won’t even believe it because things will be so beautiful and amazing!

Your life will be so good, so full of joy, so successful and so gorgeous!

Everything will be great, my darling, promise!

„But Joanna… Everything’s always so tough and hard for me…“

Pfffft. I don’t care.

Your old life is over, love- and your new life starts now and here!

In love

Joanna